*I Just Have To Know*
Ok...so what the hell, am I like the only one that has not had a 3-some? I know I have a high sex drive, I'm very confident when it comes to sex, and am very erotic and kinky.....but I just don't know about these 3-somes. I know it's every guy's fantasy to to have 2 woman, but I don't know if I would consider that, being a married woman. I don't want my husband on top of some other girl carressing her breasts, kissing her, and making her cum as he does with me.
Honestly though, I have to confess, I do check out other woman....but not in a sexual way. I check out other woman and say, "damn, she has nice breasts, I wonder if mine look as good as hers....or "Damn, she has really full lips, I wish mine were that full", or even"damn, she has a nice ass, I hope mine looks that tight" I have heard that there is nothing softer than woman to woman skin contact, and also nothing silkier than a woman's kiss, but even if I were sinlge I don't think, no I take that back, I KNOW I wouldn't/couldn't have a 3-some. Maybe I'm just a selfish lover. I don't want my husband's F*#& staff (as Quyen would put it) in someone else. I want to be the only one that knows how to give him head, how to make him shiver, how to make him cum, and I want my name to be the one he yells out.
The reason I'm posting about 3-somes is because a friend of mine (the one that can't do it in front of her dog) just told me that she and her hubby had one, and now he's wanting one all the time. I've heard that things like that can either make or break a relationship. She's now also beating herself up about the fact that this other woman they had the 3-some with is more attractive then her. This other woman has bigger breasts than her, has a fuller ass, and apparently gives awsome head...from my friend's observation. I just hope their little rendezvous doesn't break their relationship.
posted by Barbara aka Yooni @ 11:52 PM
13 Comments:
Hmmm...I'm not so sure my reasons would be all jealousy, but it would have a lot to do with it, and more of the fact that I don't think I can go muff-diving...I just can't see it..
what you do is tell him you'll give him one if you can get one in return. and then you can tell me all about it. i promise i'll read that post :P
hehehe. i am kicking myself for not getting me a 3some before i got married... heheh
nope, haven't had one. my bf and i have talked about it, but neither of us made the move of making it happen.
honestly i'd rather be in a 3some w/ 2 guys, not another girl. i'm really not interested in sex w/ a woman.
i don't know if the 2 girls thing is every man's fantasy. my bf doesn't get turned on by that girl-on-girl action, so he's not really interested in watching. as he says, he'd rather be participating anyway.
btw sorry about your friend's situation. i've heard that some couples can try it and then that's it. then some couples can break up over it. i wish her the best.
Man... that sucks about your friend! And a 3some with 2 guys is the way to go! I couldn't watch my man fucking some other chick. I would go get a butcher knife and chop his fuck staff the fuck off LOL
Teach that mother fucker to have a 3some with 2 girls... :P
JM: I guess I'm just really teritorial...can't see my man doing some other chick!
Grace: I could never do a 3-some, so you won't get any updates from me, heh
Are you serious? You would actually consider one if you were single?
LE: you know, I've never really asked my hubby if stuff like that turn him on...guess imma have to ask him. And the 2 guy thing...i thinki'd get creeped out having another man in the bed with us...eeww.
About my friend...me too, hope things work out for them!
Quyen: have you had one? I want details...
i think it's much different when you're seriously involved or married. we talked about the 3some idea before we decided to get exclusive. just something to think about. ;)
i think we know each other pretty well as far as fantasies go. i know what he doesn't like, and he knows what i don't like. it all works out in the end.
I'm with you on the "Just say no" to 3somes thing... I'm just fine with one partner... sharing is not always caring.
Besides, I know a few people who have lost otherwise great relationships because of 3somes.
Couldn't do the 3some. I would have to maime the woman and take a SOS pad to hubby to clean him up later! Besides...I'm all he can handle anyway!
It's not all it's cracked up to be.
Sorry about your friend. Obviously she's not the most secure, so it was probably a bad idea to begin with. I think you really have to be confident with your bf/spouse whatever to let another person into your private lives.
I think private lives should stay private....
sex between lovers is sacred, so why ruin it with someone else all up in your business? haha
if you're wild, experimenting, and into it for experience, then great! But, if you bring someone into it when you're in a serious/exclusive relationship, you're just asking for trouble.
it seems i'm the only guy whose commenting on this (i guess that tells you where guys stand on the subject) but i just wanted to point out: there's a huge difference between having sex and making love (kinda paraphrasing what little eyes said.) guys have a "natural" survival instinct to want to have as much sex as they can get which you girls probably have figured out already. however, most (ok, maybe some... a few?) human males have enough willpower to override this instinct. it should turn into making love when they find an exclusive mate but unfortunately, that sexual instinct is very strong and sometimes hard to ignore for some (a lot of) guys. so, like lisa said, you girls should stay away from 3somes if you're in a serious realtionship unless you are intrigued by the swinger's lifestyle.
yeah, man. if i was single, i wouldn't have to worry about steve. ya know? it's not like he's going to let me have sex with 2 guys. sheesh. hehe.
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